a few on here are looking to blame the ref.from that they are clutching.as for the numb nut that would appear to be you.the ref had a decent game end of.have you ever been in the middle for anything other than a kids game doubt it.i have and just retired from the middle after 24yrs. have also been a qualified assessor for 18yrs and am still doing that so I know what I am looking for in a ref.granted the refs up there are pretty poor but when one has a decent game and we play shite then don't try to slate the ref saying he had a bad game. numoty