A.T.G 10,773 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 1 hour ago, King Jela said: Oft! What's the story here? ? OT politics. Sad really. @FSM If someone has you on ignore then they can still see your posts if someone replies (because the quote is above) ... I had BluePeter9 on ignore but there was no point because everyone kept quoting him and I could see his posts anyway! Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FSM 20,892 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 50 minutes ago, A.T.G said: OT politics. Sad really. @FSM If someone has you on ignore then they can still see your posts if someone replies (because the quote is above) ... I had BluePeter9 on ignore but there was no point because everyone kept quoting him and I could see his posts anyway! I'll take your word for it as I don't have anyone on ignore (being a manly sort), but he doesn't have me on ignore because he's besotted with me. Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller time 4,988 Posted May 3, 2017 Author Share Posted May 3, 2017 3 hours ago, A.T.G said: OT politics. Sad really. @FSM If someone has you on ignore then they can still see your posts if someone replies (because the quote is above) ... I had BluePeter9 on ignore but there was no point because everyone kept quoting him and I could see his posts anyway! Correct. Shows that spacker knows fuck all again. Captain bullshitter strikes again Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
deco19761 1,006 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 10 hours ago, Frank Harrison said: Was it? You either book yourself in and can leave at any time you wish or the police lift you cos they believe you are a danger to yourself and/or others. 28 day lie in to be assessed I believe. Some others who have been through it may shed bit more light on it but that's my understanding of it?? Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
deco19761 1,006 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 8 hours ago, Gaz52 said: In all seriousness. I hope he goes get the help he needs, people talk about doing stuff to help mental health issues, but it seems to be all talk. I know up here in Scotland, the mental health support is non-existent and suicide rates in Scotland are shocking because of it. Especially amongst young men. Often groups don't want to help people who are in a hole with payday loans, gambling etc. And they might be the people that need help the most. My pal ended up hanging himself because the debts he ran up through payday loans etc, he was on all sorts of medication, he was trying to get financial help to pay some debts back with a charity through his work, that prided themselves on helping people with mental health problems, but they told him they weren't helping him because he'd taken out payday loans and was told they couldn't help him, not even with a debt management plan or anything. He obviously made a lot of his own problems but when he did look for help, he got pills threw at him and turned away from people who claim to be the best in helping with mental health. Shocking mate. Sorry to hear that. Absolute tragedy .. financial institutions like that should be shut down. I used them in the past to try and help get medical help for a loved one when there seemed no other answer and it stuck with me for 4 years. Paying prob around 16k for a 600 quid initial loan. Luckily I ha en decent job and my aged to get myself out of the hole eventually but fuck it was hard and I can understand what u r mate went through . Most mental health issues are as a result of money, sexual abuse, gambling (possibly brought on by sexual abuse) lack of work , low self esteem due to ask of work and opportunities, vicious circle of poverty, high rents, etc. It's a fucking shame that people are drove to death and hospital by these issues and the government should overhaul the financial sector for a. Start and stop the extortion of working class people Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller time 4,988 Posted May 3, 2017 Author Share Posted May 3, 2017 8 minutes ago, deco19761 said: You either book yourself in and can leave at any time you wish or the police lift you cos they believe you are a danger to yourself and/or others. 28 day lie in to be assessed I believe. Some others who have been through it may shed bit more light on it but that's my understanding of it?? It's quite hard to put yourself in I think Police can detain you under the mental health act but think they need a nurse or paramedic to be there Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
deco19761 1,006 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 14 minutes ago, Queen's_highway said: It's quite hard to put yourself in I think Police can detain you under the mental health act but think they need a nurse or paramedic to be there I know you can . I tried it when I was low. Doctor sent me for an emergency assessment and it was.decided I should just relax for a few days. But I know.others who have been taken in by police for their own safety and got.treatment and returned to the community .its hard stuff. Really is. The stuff I learnt about how the mind works etc was unreal Life is had at times . Sometimes. You need that person outwith your close mates and familtb Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller time 4,988 Posted May 3, 2017 Author Share Posted May 3, 2017 1 minute ago, deco19761 said: I know you can . I tried it when I was low. Doctor sent me for an emergency assessment and it was.decided I should just relax for a few days. But I know.others who have been taken in by police for their own safety and got.treatment and returned to the community .its hard stuff. Really is. The stuff I learnt about how the mind works etc was unreal I do know of people that have been In a mess and turned away. If you go to the doctor it's just tablets and a waiting list. (Happened to me) there should be more help and then I believe more people would still be here Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
deco19761 1,006 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 Just now, Queen's_highway said: I do know of people that have been In a mess and turned away. If you go to the doctor it's just tablets and a waiting list. (Happened to me) there should be more help and then I believe more people would still be here I contacted a counselling service faulty recently and the waiting list was over 16 weeks. I could have hung myself by then . Especially for males, there is no support in life at a. You hey on with it but but I thought everything was meant to be equal . Equal rights equal pay equal education. Equal health equal total bulls hit. Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller time 4,988 Posted May 3, 2017 Author Share Posted May 3, 2017 1 minute ago, deco19761 said: I contacted a counselling service faulty recently and the waiting list was over 16 weeks. I could have hung myself by then . Especially for males, there is no support in life at a. You hey on with it but but I thought everything was meant to be equal . Equal rights equal pay equal education. Equal health equal total bulls hit. Equal fuck all lol My sons mum has never paid a penny for him but no one says anything. If it was the other way about I'd be called everything Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
deco19761 1,006 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 6 minutes ago, Queen's_highway said: Equal fuck all lol My sons mum has never paid a penny for him but no one says anything. If it was the other way about I'd be called everything Exactly mate. I am away from her (just now) I pay more than I am legally entitled to pay. She gets child text credit or whatever it is. She is a nurse earning round about the same as me . I am living with parents have my boy three times a week run about picking him up etc but yet I have to take 200 from my income and give it to her and also buy all the nappies and food take. Him lit etc when he is.with me. There is nothing fair in society . It's went all the wrong way I believe in equality. But I believe in TOTAL equality .. that 200 per month can go to a mortgage etc but jobs I give it to her who earns as much as me.. and now gets and extra 200 . It's all wrong mate all wrong Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
deco19761 1,006 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 I M going to write to nippy nick and ask her as first minister what she intends to do to re balance it all. But we live in utopia with SNP hahaha aye fucking tight Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller time 4,988 Posted May 3, 2017 Author Share Posted May 3, 2017 18 minutes ago, deco19761 said: Exactly mate. I am away from her (just now) I pay more than I am legally entitled to pay. She gets child text credit or whatever it is. She is a nurse earning round about the same as me . I am living with parents have my boy three times a week run about picking him up etc but yet I have to take 200 from my income and give it to her and also buy all the nappies and food take. Him lit etc when he is.with me. There is nothing fair in society . It's went all the wrong way I believe in equality. But I believe in TOTAL equality .. that 200 per month can go to a mortgage etc but jobs I give it to her who earns as much as me.. and now gets and extra 200 . It's all wrong mate all wrong Mate call child maintenance. I had my son 3 days a week and they called it shared care. She got tax credits and child benefit whilst I used my money. You're not legally entitled to pay anything although she might be a cunt with access. I was paying her £250 a month till I was told I didn't have too. She also got increased tax credits cause wee man gets DLA. Now I get that and pisses her n fsm off Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller time 4,988 Posted May 3, 2017 Author Share Posted May 3, 2017 21 minutes ago, deco19761 said: Exactly mate. I am away from her (just now) I pay more than I am legally entitled to pay. She gets child text credit or whatever it is. She is a nurse earning round about the same as me . I am living with parents have my boy three times a week run about picking him up etc but yet I have to take 200 from my income and give it to her and also buy all the nappies and food take. Him lit etc when he is.with me. There is nothing fair in society . It's went all the wrong way I believe in equality. But I believe in TOTAL equality .. that 200 per month can go to a mortgage etc but jobs I give it to her who earns as much as me.. and now gets and extra 200 . It's all wrong mate all wrong She now asks me for cash when she has him an hour a week but says she can't do anything with him so asks me for dough Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
deco19761 1,006 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 4 minutes ago, Queen's_highway said: She now asks me for cash when she has him an hour a week but says she can't do anything with him so asks me for dough Fucking mental mats. Honestly. If it.was the other way about we would .. as u say be called everything under the sun. Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
deco19761 1,006 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 8 minutes ago, Queen's_highway said: Mate call child maintenance. I had my son 3 days a week and they called it shared care. She got tax credits and child benefit whilst I used my money. You're not legally entitled to pay anything although she might be a cunt with access. I was paying her £250 a month till I was told I didn't have too. She also got increased tax credits cause wee man gets DLA. Now I get that and pisses her n fsm off I will check it out and keep that one up my sleeve. I want the wee man full time. I would happily drop him off go to work pick him up fro nursery etc and take him on holiday that is her.worse fear. No one has a look in when I have him .He is totally besotted with me and is only just over two .I will look into it mate cheers for the heads up. :-) Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bigsasasfloppyhair 13,310 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 12 hours ago, Queen's_highway said: Who laughed at it? He did, no she did Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller time 4,988 Posted May 3, 2017 Author Share Posted May 3, 2017 36 minutes ago, deco19761 said: I will check it out and keep that one up my sleeve. I want the wee man full time. I would happily drop him off go to work pick him up fro nursery etc and take him on holiday that is her.worse fear. No one has a look in when I have him .He is totally besotted with me and is only just over two .I will look into it mate cheers for the heads up. :-) Took me a while to get the wee man just hang on in there mate. She was never properly maternal and was never put first. He was asked recently at a meeting if he likes living with me better and says it's amazing. Wants to live with me forever and that he is always doing fun things. Was nearly greeting lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
deco19761 1,006 Posted May 3, 2017 Share Posted May 3, 2017 1 minute ago, Queen's_highway said: Took me a while to get the wee man just hang on in there mate. She was never properly maternal and was never put first. He was asked recently at a meeting if he likes living with me better and says it's amazing. Wants to live with me forever and that he is always doing fun things. Was nearly greeting lol Superb mate. Wee man can't speak but as they say actions sometimes speak louder than words she knows It. We see what happens but that's really good info mate and if anyone else looking in who is dealing with the same shit it be good for them too. Just turned this topic into dear deadrie haha Cheers.again mate mm good man Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller time 4,988 Posted May 3, 2017 Author Share Posted May 3, 2017 13 minutes ago, deco19761 said: Superb mate. Wee man can't speak but as they say actions sometimes speak louder than words she knows It. We see what happens but that's really good info mate and if anyone else looking in who is dealing with the same shit it be good for them too. Just turned this topic into dear deadrie haha Cheers.again mate mm good man And don't worry I haven't forgot about the bathroom lol. Just get the summer out the way and will get you round for a quote. At least your wee man has you mate and he'll know with actions how much you love him. Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thewhitesettler 2,711 Posted May 4, 2017 Share Posted May 4, 2017 It's a crying shame for the man. One can only hope that he gets the right treatment, and is back playing football again soon. Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
giffnockger 4,840 Posted May 4, 2017 Share Posted May 4, 2017 Very sad/surprising news, hope he pulls through all good! Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlCapone 7,678 Posted May 4, 2017 Share Posted May 4, 2017 On 03/05/2017 at 0:03 PM, Gaz52 said: Were Celtic in for him? Just Torbett Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
eejay the dj 31,964 Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 On 03/05/2017 at 9:25 AM, MaddistonKnight said: Doesn't matter how good or bad your life is, how rich or poor you are, it can affect anyone at any time. Hope the guy gets the help he needs. Its not an easy road to walk down. Yes mate .Bit of compassion? .Wouldn't wish this on any non begging bastard Seriously good post Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForeverAndEver 71,321 Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 22 minutes ago, eejay the dj said: Yes mate .Bit of compassion? .Wouldn't wish this on any non begging bastard Seriously good post Quote Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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