That's exactly how I feel, not sure about the marriage! For me if I was with someone who I loved with all my heart and soul, no ring or bit of paper would change my feelings. I don't go after men for their money and I won't if married try and take him for every penny in divorce! aye, marriage has become over rated. cause of all the famous ppl getting married and divorced every 5 seconds. its took away its true meaning. but i think marriage is good idea. not only to you get to have a big party and get a two week holliday its the one day of your life you know all eyes will be on you and your dress ^_^