Aye small things like that seem like a good idea too.I also forgot about the gift for Sandy,whether it be as simple as a card or an actual gift.Personaly I don't think it is invading his privacy,not like we are asking anything of him,we would just be showing him we are thinking of him.I doubt he would recieve it and be like "wtf,those pesky kids ruining my day with this very nice card/gift"